Thursday 26 December 2019

At End of The Year 2019 The Books I Read That Helped Me Make Sense Of Life!



FIVE KEY POINTS THAT I EXPERIENCE WITH LIFE !


We all know that life is a journey towards the uncertainty. Just for an example, somewhere the life is running through the idea of Capitalism, race for establishment & the thoughts of Realism, just a political science student is putting his immature thought in the very beginning, nothing more than this ! 


Now, why we need dreams to live ?


I think some of you have read one of the best-selling books in history titled, "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho. The book itself a powerful combo of life lessons & inspirations. Among these aspects, the book clearly puts a very meaningful message to the readers to make the decisions to focus on our own journey. There’s nothing wrong with taking advice & learning from others, but make sure it aligns with our desires & passions. Simply can say that people all over the world to live their dreams. Thankfully, those authors never gave up !

It's okay.... you need not to comply with it at all. Although, it's up to you! Just sharing what I go through the whole year in 2019!


Have You Lost Something ?

It does often feel like that somewhere we have just lost something! Memory slips; what we have lost somewhere??  Something that could be amazing for us ! But no.. we lost it !! Now, it seems that most all of us are pre planning for the new year with new hopes & aspirations; similarly we are memorizing the past events! What we have or what we have gained in this passing year!! Too many times in life, we are so focused on the past & future that we do not quite think about the moment, the present that we are living & a part of us. It’s normal, not to pay attention to things which are surrounding with us! Hence, you need to ask a question to yourself; have you really lost something? 

I don’t know what's going on your mind right now & whether you are getting or not about the point that I want to make. Try to conclude here, with the life lessons from Robin Sharma's book, "The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari", "The secret of happiness is simple: find out what you truly love to do & then direct all of your energy towards doing it. Once you do this, abundance flows into your life & all your desires are filled with ease & grace."

Meanwhile, the book teaches us that we can only change when we make space for change in our lives.





Let’s Talk about Change !

Here comes to the end days of the year 2019. It was full of ups & downs & along with all these some sort of memorable in some ways; likewise the life of a normal human being. 2019, also a year which has changed me much; emotionally & mentally. Nowards, the calendar will also change; but for me the target remains the same!   But, this is not the point; the point is ‘the change’ - which is not easy especially for others to accept it !


Now , I take the references of an Assamese book, “ Probal Ichha Shakti aaru Aatmotkarxar Sadhana”,(in English- Strong will power & self-refinement practice) written by Dr Nirmala Devi. The book mainly for the young readers, where the author encourages us to look beyond traditional careers by seeking to  develop the creative thinking.

The writer advocates that each & every individual have some approachable power; mostly for the time being, we fail to make it a part of our life. This is the irony.

Quite true that we live with self; but we fail to find out the basic tenets of self!  Simply put, we do not know about self, which is the biggest obstacle to grow up in our life. For which we need to refinement self & absorbs some changes in life in our way of living !


At the end,  the point is that when you have absorbed the change to attain some targets of your own life then there will be some people who stay far from you, even in your family members or close ones! Trust me, I am not encouraging you to take any revolutions against your own people. Sharing just a fact that if you think that some changes may be required for your life to keep moving or growing then don’t stop especially for others! Please don’t stop, do it ! Just keep going & keep growing !!


What is Life's Truest Desire?

As we are human beings, we all have some desires in life ! Know that some of us already have received what we desired in earlier & some desires are still far from us ! our desires stick to lifelong, one after another, which is a never ending process! Along with the new year resolutions we silently also aspire some desires to come true in the coming year!

Believe me or not, but nobody gets to make me happy or sad ! Life & how I experience it is simply my choice. By my definition, I have always been a winner because I ever improve. Nothing can be taken from me that is truly mine. I always command my wish.  When life slaps you in the face, smile & go on with that which makes you truly happy. You can choose happiness regardless of what anyone says or does. This should be your truest desires in life.

In-spite of this, Napoleon Hill wrote in his book, “Think & Grow Rich” that  desires are the starting point of all the achievements. Later he also added “ There is a difference between wishing for a thing & being ready to receive it. No one is ready for a thing until he believes he can acquire it. The state of mind must be belief, not mere hope or wish ...”

Remember, no more effort is required to aim high in life; it needs truest desire to grab the opportunity.



The Story of Life -


What is life in its way of living ? Definitely answers are not the same individual to individual.  Although, we all have some sort of ideas about life. But, knowing about the life is also not so simple.


Here, I am not going to share ideas of self about life because immaturity is still with me  to talk or share on this regard. Therefore, I take a reference of the most popular novels of this decade written in Hindi, “Dark Horse, Ek Ankahi Dastan” by Nilotpal Mrinal.


The book is the story based on life's struggles by trying to immense vivid portrayal of life. Dark Horse is a journey through the negativity to positivity. No matter where we are in our career, our ability to focus to grab the opportunity is only the key of success. This mindset can guide us to a life of purpose, authenticity, and achievement. This is the belief of a civil service aspirant Santosh, who is the lead character of Dark Horse.


To be honest, the meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain & obvious and so simple. Life is indenting the future & living the moment. One small act of endeavour to achieve the goal can create the road to our own destiny. Life, to me, is an amazing opportunity!




To conclude, my sincere apologies for sharing my personal experiences if I have put any mistakes or said anything the vast untrue!  But I feel it's necessary to share something for this important subject & I have tried my level best to inculcate the things that I have learnt so far.


Thanks for your happy reading !

 

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